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You want to get your ex back and don’t know what to do to make it happen.  You feel that such a thing could only happen to you, but you are so wrong.  It is happening to other men all over the world at this point in time and they are all asking the same question “How can I get my ex back?”

She has just dumped you and, like most men, this is your immediate reaction; you want her back.  But here you need to stop and think.    You must be sure however that, by wanting to get her back, you are doing what is right for you.  You should be hoping to renew what was a healthy relationship and not just suffering from an obsession to get her back any way you can, just to have her back with you.   If the last case is yours, you would do better to move on and look for a partner who really suits you.

When you want to be certain that the reasons for having her back are valid, you must define what method you are going to use to get her back.  When you want to get her back, just to have her back, you would do better to move on and find a more suitable partner.  When you are prepared to take your time over getting her back you are probably right to give things a try.  When you want to build up a solid friendship with her and see where the future takes you, hoping that one day the friendship will move into being a romantic relationship, you will probably succeed to get her back.  Remember that you will have to leave her the time she needs to decide.

Your idea should be to pass from a friendship into a romance.  So start by building up a strong friendship going while you await the right moment to get back into a new romantic relationship.  This strategy gives you the best chance of meeting your objective to get your ex back.

What is going to bring success or failure is how long you accept to take to implement your strategy.  The slower you are prepared to take things, the higher will be your chance of success.  You must not forget that it was she who decided to dump you, so you have to give her the time for her emotions to settle. After the break up she will likely want nothing to do with you so give her the time and space to think things over and return to a more objective state of mind. 

During this time you are going to have to look at the reasons why she left you and find ways of doing things better so that the same problems don’t return if, in the future, you manage to get back together.  Let the friendship continue to develop.  When you feel the time is right you may have to push a little to help her make the right decision to return to you.  Be careful not to rush into things and scare her off, just take your time.

If you apply these strategies to your own life, you will realize that they offer you the best chance of succeeding when you want to get your ex back.

Joe Bisley